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Wesley Clay Vass
March 21, 1977 ~ August 23, 2016 (age 39) 39 Years Old Light a Candle
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Message from MIKE
September 15, 2023 5:11 AM
I think of you a lot buddy, hanging out at the house, and at the college. You, me, Melissa, Amanda, Alexis, Big Ron, and Freddie and man the parties. hahaha so many good times. All the conversations we shared. It's been a long time though. I was floored when I heard the news you were gone. I wish I could turn back the hands of time and go back to those days and see you smile again and make me laugh. Man, you had a way about you, everybody loved you. I wish I had that. Wes, wish I could have one more conversation with you. R.I.P. Brother, I'll never forget you, friend. Ill come back here often, and I'll make sure I talk to you.
A candle was lit by MIKE
on September 15, 2023 5:02 AM
A candle was lit by Hailey Krueger
on August 30, 2023 12:15 AM
A candle was lit by Mike
on August 20, 2022 5:03 PM
A candle was lit by Mackenzie Krueger
on February 15, 2022 11:05 PM
Message from Nikki Vass
December 17, 2021 6:08 AM
Thinking of you as it gets closer to Christmas. I think of you often. Always and forever.
A candle was lit by Nikki Vass
on December 17, 2021 6:07 AM
Message from Nikki Vass
August 20, 2021 2:52 PM
It's been 5 years and I still can't believe you're gone. I'll always carry you in my heart Wes. I'll always carry your last name.
A candle was lit by Alex Krueger
on March 21, 2021 8:58 PM
A candle was lit by Mackenzie Krueger
on January 30, 2021 8:37 AM
A candle was lit by Nikki Vass
on December 15, 2017 3:18 PM
Message from Nikki Vass
December 15, 2017 3:17 PM
Merry Christmas Wes. I think of you often. I have an angel wing around my neck for you. I just dreamed of you and moaned out loud in my sleep. My heart hurts so much when I think of you. I will ALWAYS love you Wesley Clay Vass.
Message from Nikki Vass
April 27, 2017 8:58 AM
Wesley. I dreamed you weren't gone. Your birthday was a very hard day for me. The days before and the days since were hard as well. I cry for you more than anyone would believe. God knows the depth of my heartache and He knows how much you mean to me. I wonder when I will not get sad so often when I think about you. I almost don't want to. Then I would have to accept that it real and I don't want to get. I'm getting grief and guilt counseling. I love you. I will be back again.
Message from Nikki Vass
February 15, 2017 11:30 AM
13 years ago today you asked me to marry you. You wanted to be different than the cliche of asking on Valentine's day. So you asked the day after. I have thought of you almost daily since the last time I saw your face. I think of you daily. You will be a part of me forever. Those memories are mine and you set a bar that no one will ever measure up to. So many regrets. I still love you Wes.
Message from Nikki Vass
December 25, 2016 10:06 PM
Merry Christmas Wes. It's so weird when I think about you not walking around somewhere on Earth. I want that so bad. My heart drops and my stomach turns a flip every time I think of you. All my love. Forever. I'll be back.
A candle was lit by Bethany Krueger
on December 15, 2016 8:58 AM
Message from Nikki Vass
December 1, 2016 2:18 PM
Wes. I am grieving hard man. I have an elephant ornament in memory of you hanging on my tree. It will be there every Christmas until I die or it crumbles. I had something wonderful happen last Friday. I felt you with me. I'm sitting in a classroom praying, and anxious. I look up and right in front of me was a painting of two elephants. No other pictures on the walls. I don't want this to be true. I'll always wonder what could be changed that day. I know exactly where I was and exactly what I was doing when you left this realm. You were my soul mate. You still are. I don't think my opinion on that will change. If there's a way to actually look for someone in the after life, whatever it turns out to be like, I will look for you! Ugh. It hurts. All my love. I'll be back.
A candle was lit by Nikki Vass
on November 9, 2016 7:16 PM
Message from Nikki Vass
November 9, 2016 7:15 PM
Oh Wes. I just found out about you. I am devastated. I never ever stopped thinking about you man. I wanted to talk to you. To hug you. To apologize to you. I will forever carry you in my heart. I will forever carry your name. I don't care what anyone thinks. I have a picture of us kissing. I have that mirror you bought me at the mall in Statesville. You will be a part of my life for the rest of my life.
Message from Nikki Vass
November 11, 2016 2:27 PM
I have to mourn. I have to feel like I have closure. I'm remembering so much. All the songs you loved. You would hear a song and play it over and over and over obsessively. Exactly how I do. Vienna. I remember that night. Hours and hours of driving with that song on repeat. It always reminded me of you. Now it means even more. I remember when you asked me to learn the words to Lady Antebellums I need you now so I could sing it to you. I did in a day. I loved that you loved to hear me sing. Wes you were my "one". My only true love. I regretted what I did everyday for years. I ached for you. I want to believe you're with me. I want to believe I will see you in heaven. Since we parted my life has changed 180°. Now I have the regret that I didn't shine the light of God's saving grace enough that you received it. I did get you to stop saying GD! I'm married and I have a 3 1/2 year old autistic son. I taught him something you told me. Now he'll say it forever and it will remind me of you. I love you Wes. I'm not doing good right now. I want to wake up and know if I drive to Denver there's a chance I'll run into you. I'll be back here soon.
A candle was lit by Christy hickman
on September 2, 2016 9:35 PM
Message from L.A.
September 2, 2016 3:18 PM
Dear Family,
I am very sorry for your loss. The Bible holds out a reassuring promise that "all those in the memorial tombs will hear [Jesus's] voice and come out." (John 5:28,29) What a loving provision from God! May you find much comfort and strength from this trustworthy promise. (Isaiah 55:10,11; Revelation 21:4,5)
I am very sorry for your loss. The Bible holds out a reassuring promise that "all those in the memorial tombs will hear [Jesus's] voice and come out." (John 5:28,29) What a loving provision from God! May you find much comfort and strength from this trustworthy promise. (Isaiah 55:10,11; Revelation 21:4,5)
A candle was lit by Dalton Sainz
on August 28, 2016 5:05 PM
A candle was lit by Dalton Sainz
on August 28, 2016 12:26 PM
A candle was lit by Tiffany Jones
on August 28, 2016 10:40 AM
Message from Roger and Ginnie Carper
August 27, 2016 7:35 PM
We are so sorry for your loss. May your family find strength in happy memories of a life gone too soon. We are part of Skip and Katie's family. We understand loss of a loved family member and offer our sincere condolences. With Love and Prayers, Roger and Ginnie Carper
A candle was lit by Roger and Ginnie Carper
on August 27, 2016 7:25 PM
A candle was lit by Lynda Goosman
on August 27, 2016 2:26 PM
A candle was lit by Todd Davis
on August 27, 2016 12:28 PM
Message from Mike and Judi Davis
August 27, 2016 12:12 PM
So sorry for your lost, thoughts and prayers for you and family
Message from Tara
August 27, 2016 11:40 AM
This world has lost a beautiful soul, full of love. I have the happiest memories from my childhood with Wesley. I could go on and on with stories. We always stayed up late in the basement in Marietta watching scary movies. And I remember sneaking in the 'good room' of the house to try and hear our parents watching something on HBO that we weren't allowed to watch. Our family vacations to Nags Head. Going fishing on the Ohio River in the boat. All the times we were at Granny's house in sleeping bags. I really could go on and on. There aren't many memories from growing up that Wesley is not in. I can never look at GI Joe or Transformers and not think of Wesley (and Jason). Wesley was like my brother growing up. We are blessed to have had Wesley in our lives. We can all keep his smile in our hearts, and his laughter in our memories. Rest in peace, Wesley, I will always love you and never forget you.-Tara
Message from Carl & Dianne Williams & Family (Alan & Kelly)
August 26, 2016 10:44 PM
Our hearts are saddened to hear of Wesley's passing. He was always such a kind and courteous young man. Our son and daughter attended NIHS with Wesley, and he attended some events with the youth of our church. We kept him in our prayers during those years , as he had a searching heart and a tender spirit. Our love and prayers go out to all of your family in your loss.
A candle was lit by Carl and Dianne Williams and Family (Kelly & Alan )
on August 26, 2016 10:32 PM
Message from Bryon Querrey Sr.
August 26, 2016 10:00 PM
May God each and everyone of you during this time of gravity. Wesley will surly be missed, I know I will greatly miss him.
A candle was lit by Bryon, Susan & Scottie Querrey
on August 26, 2016 9:47 PM
A candle was lit by April J.
on August 26, 2016 9:05 PM
A candle was lit by Tara J
on August 26, 2016 8:33 PM
Message from Clarksburg, WV
August 26, 2016 7:46 PM
In my mind's eye, I can still see Wesley as a small boy, giggling about some little joke with that infectious laugh of his, scooting along the kitchen tile in his light blue, footie pajamas. I remember how excited he was the first day he climbed up to the backyard treehouse all by himself, or how much fun he had stealing the still-warm chocolate chip cookies when Carolyn had made a fresh batch at their house in Ohio. He had a such a capacity to laugh and to love so deeply, that makes it jarring that he is gone so suddenly. He loved his family, and his bond with his brother Jason was forged from the moment he was born. He loved his mother, Carolyn; his father, George; his grandparents andz great-grandparents all so, so much. There is a line from Shakespeare's Macbeth that has been echoing through my mind since I heard of his passing: "Out, out brief candle..." Wesley's was a light that shone so bright, and will continue to do so, so long as his whole family and all of his friends keep that light in their hearts. I can see him now, waiting for that fresh pan of brownies from Granny in the hereafter, watching over all of us with that beautiful smile on his face. It is a light that can no longer go out. Our deepest condolences to Carolyn, Jason, George and the extended Johnson and Vass families. Much love, Bill, Christy and Fiona Smith
A candle was lit by Bill, Christy & Fiona Smith
on August 26, 2016 7:29 PM
A candle was lit by Casey Earp
on August 26, 2016 5:05 PM
A candle was lit by Brandy
on August 26, 2016 4:40 PM
A candle was lit by Michelle Mills-Barrino
on August 26, 2016 3:44 PM
A candle was lit by Amber Martin
on August 26, 2016 2:48 PM
A candle was lit by Matt and Mary Dunuc
on August 26, 2016 2:32 PM
A candle was lit by Endia LaRae Lewis
on August 26, 2016 12:02 PM
A candle was lit by Tim, Amy, & Tia Querrey
on August 26, 2016 10:36 AM
A candle was lit by Heather Hamrick
on August 26, 2016 10:34 AM
A candle was lit by Autumn and and Tony
on August 26, 2016 10:05 AM
A candle was lit by Betty Whitlock and family..thinking of George and Jason
on August 26, 2016 8:14 AM
A candle was lit by Matt and Lauri Brammer and family
on August 26, 2016 7:38 AM
Message from Aunt Barbara & Uncle Ronnie and family
August 26, 2016 7:06 AM
Wesley-- We will never forget your laugh and smile.
Carolyn, George, and Jason
No words can express the sadness we feel. We will always remember Wesley!
Love and Prayers
Carolyn, George, and Jason
No words can express the sadness we feel. We will always remember Wesley!
Love and Prayers
A candle was lit by Aunt Barbara & Uncle Ronnie and family
on August 26, 2016 6:57 AM
A candle was lit by Kisha harris
on August 25, 2016 11:08 PM
A candle was lit by Steve B
on August 25, 2016 10:54 PM
Message from Bobbie Brammer
August 25, 2016 10:32 PM
Wesley had that same smile from his wary years. Thinking of Jason and George at this time.
A candle was lit by Aunt Bobbie Uncle David
on August 25, 2016 10:28 PM
A candle was lit by Lachlan anderson
on August 25, 2016 10:22 PM
A candle was lit by Dori Fox
on August 25, 2016 10:08 PM
A candle was lit by Lindsay
on August 25, 2016 9:51 PM
Message from Heather Galliher
August 25, 2016 9:17 PM
Wesley you were one of a kind. We had some good times. I always felt your home was a second home and your family a second family. I am praying for your family and friends that God's peace comfort and strength be on them. Gone too soon but may you rest in peace.
Will always love you
Will always love you
A candle was lit by Derek pegram
on August 25, 2016 9:15 PM
A candle was lit by Heather Galliher
on August 25, 2016 9:12 PM
A candle was lit by Mandy Stratmann
on August 25, 2016 9:03 PM
A candle was lit by Cary
on August 25, 2016 8:40 PM
A candle was lit by Granny
on August 25, 2016 8:38 PM
A candle was lit by Janie Fitzgerald
on August 25, 2016 8:33 PM
A candle was lit by Amanda Johnson
on August 25, 2016 8:28 PM
Message from Bob Hayes
August 25, 2016 8:13 PM
Wesley was a young man always willing to lend a helping hand and he wil be missed! George, my condolences my friend! Hand of friendship is always there !
Message from Aunt Beverly
August 25, 2016 8:06 PM
Wesley --- YOU will be in my heart FOREVER! I will always remember how sweet you were to me. I have always loved you!!
Carolyn, Jason and George --- I wish I KNEW some words comforting enough for the hurt you are feeling. ALL I can do is tell you that I care, I really do, and my heart is with each of you.
Carolyn, Jason and George --- I wish I KNEW some words comforting enough for the hurt you are feeling. ALL I can do is tell you that I care, I really do, and my heart is with each of you.
A candle was lit by Bob Hayes
on August 25, 2016 8:01 PM
A candle was lit by William Queen
on August 25, 2016 7:40 PM
Message from ChuckWalker
August 25, 2016 7:39 PM
Wesley was too young to have left his friends and family so soon. ReSt in peace Wesley and be at peace Carolyn, Jadon and George.
A candle was lit by Nancy Walker
on August 25, 2016 7:35 PM
A candle was lit by Marlene and Chuck Walker
on August 25, 2016 7:34 PM
A candle was lit by Heidi Davis Bost
on August 25, 2016 7:31 PM
A candle was lit by Chuck and Marlene Walker
on August 25, 2016 7:26 PM
A candle was lit by Dana Frazier Pearson
on August 25, 2016 7:25 PM
A candle was lit by Joe Shoemaker
on August 25, 2016 7:18 PM
A candle was lit by MeLynda Millsaps
on August 25, 2016 7:03 PM
A candle was lit by Donavan J Scott
on August 25, 2016 6:52 PM
A candle was lit by Keith Fletcher
on August 25, 2016 6:47 PM
A candle was lit by Aunt Sandra and uncle rick
on August 25, 2016 6:30 PM
A candle was lit by Shannon Feimster
on August 25, 2016 6:27 PM
A candle was lit by Keith karis
on August 25, 2016 6:25 PM
Message from Aunt Katie
August 25, 2016 6:19 PM
Wesley was ALWAYS SO-O-O SWEET! Have known him since birth and LOVED being around him! A PRECIOUS SMILE on his handsome face! Wesley, You are OUR "Angel" up in Heaven awaiting our arrival. We LOVE YOU!! Sympathy to Carolyn, Jason and George.
--Aunt Katie and entire Family
--Aunt Katie and entire Family
A candle was lit by Alexandrea Stratmann
on August 25, 2016 6:07 PM
Message from Robin Stratmann
August 25, 2016 5:35 PM
Wes, you have always have been a extra brother to me and will be missed greatly. Your nieces and your sister and brother Mike..... will miss you forever.
A candle was lit by Robin Stratmann
on August 25, 2016 5:32 PM
A candle was lit by Kaycee Colyer MacGibbon
on August 25, 2016 5:07 PM
A candle was lit by Melissa Cooper
on August 25, 2016 5:04 PM
A candle was lit by Shauna Wehlmann
on August 25, 2016 4:30 PM
A candle was lit by Mike Stratmann
on August 25, 2016 4:18 PM
Message from Crystal Jordan
August 25, 2016 4:00 PM
My condolences to Wesley's family. He was an awesome man. R.I.P Wesley
A candle was lit by Crystal Jordan
on August 25, 2016 3:58 PM
Message from Skip Chain
August 25, 2016 3:53 PM
I will pray for the family. I am so sorry for your loss so early in life. I do love all of you and remember if there is anything I can do all you need to do is ask.
A candle was lit by Skip Chain Aunt Katies's Fiance. I will pray for the
on August 25, 2016 3:50 PM
A candle was lit by Daniel Busque
on August 25, 2016 3:49 PM
A candle was lit by Perman Brown & Travis Weeks
on August 25, 2016 2:42 PM
A candle was lit by Travis Weeks
on August 25, 2016 2:19 PM
A candle was lit by Tara
on August 25, 2016 2:09 PM
A candle was lit by KATIE, Christy, Bill and Fiona
on August 25, 2016 12:45 PM
A candle was lit by Aunt Beverly
on August 25, 2016 10:20 AM
Message from Reavis Funeral Home of Statesville
August 24, 2016 6:50 PM
The staff & management of Reavis Funeral Home of Statesville extends heartfelt sympathy to the family & friends of Wesley Vass. Our hope is that something we do or say can help ease your burden of loss.
A candle was lit by Reavis Funeral Home of Statesville
on August 24, 2016 6:49 PM
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